Love By Design
You've Been Wearing a Costume Over Your True Dating Archetype
And it's time to take it off.
You Didn’t Choose Your Dating Patterns!
You Adapted To Survive Them!!
You weren't born The Fixer, The Chill Girl, or The Confident One.
You learned those roles. You survived with them. You performed through them.
But underneath the costume is your Dating Archetype — the energetic design you were born with for love.
Here's What Your Dating Archetype Report reveals:
The costume you’ve been wearing in love — and why it once felt necessary
Your real energetic design underneath your patterns
How your attraction style, communication style, and attachment tendencies truly work
Why you keep choosing the same men—and how to choose differently
The kind of partner your system is actually wired to thrive with
This is the clarity your heart has been waiting for.
You Don't Need More Dating Rules.
You Need to Know Your Real Design.
No more forcing connection. No more chasing chemistry. No more performing in costume.
When you understand your design, you stop performing in costume
and start choosing from clarity.
I Love Human Design for Love Because...
I Needed to Understand Why I Kept Choosing From the Same Place…
Even When I “Knew Better.”
I didn’t come to Human Design because I was curious.
I came to it because I was frustrated.
Frustrated that my love life didn’t match the woman I had become.
Frustrated that everything looked good on paper but never felt good in real life.
Frustrated that chemistry kept winning over compatibility… and alignment didn’t even get a vote.
So I did what every 3/6 does:
I lived through the pattern.
I crashed into it.
I tried to out-think it.
And when that didn’t work, I finally let myself study what was underneath it.
Human Design gave me context for the parts of myself I’d been stumbling over for years.
It explained my attraction cycles.
It explained my emotional responses.
It explained why certain men felt familiar… even when they weren’t good for me.
Most importantly, it explained the costume I had been wearing in dating— and the parts of me that never felt safe enough to come out.
That’s why I use Human Design for love today. Not to make you fit into a formula,
but to help you recognize your own design clearly enough to stop repeating patterns you’ve already outgrown.
When you understand your true design, you stop performing in relationships and you start showing up as the woman alignment has been waiting for.
If you’re done circling the same dynamics… and you’re ready for the clarity you’ve always felt but never had language for—
I’d love to show you.
✧ Joan
Ready to Take Off the Costume?
Start dating from your truth — not your patterns.
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