Discover If You're Ready for Aligned Love
This free Aligned Love Assessment reveals how your Human Design has been shaping who you’re attracted to — and whether you’re ready to move beyond Chemistry and Compatibility into Conscious Alignment.
You're brilliant. You've followed all the dating advice. You've built a life that looks amazing on paper.......... But love still feels like the one thing you can't figure out, doesn't it?
Let me guess...
Great first dates → ghosted
Shrinking to stay chosen
Situationships that look aligned on paper
Performing feminine energy instead of embodying truth
Confused because generic advice doesn’t fit you
You’ve done the therapy, the books, the apps, the mindset work—and the pattern still repeats.
Here's the truth: Nothing is wrong with you. The paradigm is wrong.
You're not broken. You don't need more healing. You don't need to be more patient, more soft, or more anything.
What’s missing isn’t another strategy—it’s alignment between your BE (design) and your DO (dating habits) so what you HAVE stops being chemistry and starts becoming conscious partnership.
WHAT THIS ASSESSMENT ACTUALLY IS
The Aligned Love Assessment is Different
This isn't a "strategy session."
This is a truth-telling moment.
You don't have to figure this out alone anymore. Whether you're divorced and starting fresh, never been married and wondering why you haven't found "the one," or coming out of a long-term relationship that didn't work out — I've worked with women in every situation.
Your story is unique—and readiness shows up differently for every design:
Human Design is your individualized blueprint for how your energy is designed to operate in love. Your Dating Archetype (your Profile) shows who you are in relationships, your Authority shows how you’re meant to choose, and your Love Gates reveal how attraction and bonding activate for you. This Assessment uses your design to give structure to your intuition — so you can stop guessing and start choosing from alignment.
Your Dating Archetype is your Profile — one essential piece of your Human Design — but it’s not the whole picture. Alignment happens when your Archetype, Authority, Love Gates, and nervous system are integrated.
Are you actually READY for aligned love?
Or are there invisible design patterns and conditioned habits shaping who you’re attracted to — and how you choose?
This Assessment reveals the truth.
What We Map On The Call
In your 60-minute Assessment, we'll explore:
✅ Your Dating Archetype (Profile) + how it shows up in love
✅ Your Authority + how your intuition actually speaks
✅ Your Love Gates + your bonding/attraction pattern
✅ Your current REAL Attraction Pyramid™ layer (Chemistry / Compatibility / Conscious Alignment)
✅ Your Costume (conditioned dating habits) + what to shift next
✅ Your next aligned step (whether that’s Become the Aligned One or foundational support)
This is where we get honest.
This is where transformation actually begins.
When you book your Aligned Love Assessment, you receive:
💬 60-Minute Private Assessment (mapping + clarity) with Joan — A truth-telling conversation where we assess together whether you're ready for aligned love or if there are patterns that need addressing first.
🎁 Your Personalized Dating Archetype Report (your Human Design Profile translated into love)” — so you can recognize your defaults and date from alignment. Your archetype reveals your natural dating gifts, your biggest patterns, and exactly how to break free from what's been keeping you stuck.
🎯 Your Next Aligned Steps — By the end of the call, you'll know exactly what's blocking you and what your most aligned next step is (no guessing, no pressure). And if you ARE ready for Aligned Love, I'll invite you to join the Aligned Love Academy where we'll map your complete Love Blueprint and transform your entire dating experience from your authentic design out.
WHO THIS IS FOR
This Assessment is perfect if you:
✓ Keep attracting the same patterns and want to understand WHY
✓ Have great chemistry but relationships still don't work
✓ Wonder if YOU'RE the problem (you're not, but let's find out what is)
✓ Want the TRUTH about what's blocking you, not more tactics
✓ You want clarity — not reassurance, not hype, not another method
✓ Are ready to look at your patterns honestly
✓ Are willing to be honest + implement
✓ Are ready to stop performing, start being aligned and date from self-trust and truth
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
This Assessment is NOT for you if:
✗ You want me to tell you what you want to hear
✗ You're not ready to look at your patterns honestly
✗ You prefer surface-level dating tips over deep truth
✗ You're looking for a quick fix or magic formula
✗ You're not open to Human Design principles
✗ You want manifestation without self-responsibility
Why This Assessment is Different
Personal & Deep: When we meet, I'm not just interested in the basics. We'll dive deep into your love life journey, patterns, and dreams. This isn't surface-level — it's transformational.
Tailored to YOU: This assessment is designed around YOUR unique energetic blueprint, your specific challenges, and your personal level. No cookie-cutter advice.
What to Expect
You Get Immediate Clarity: You'll walk away with concrete insights about why your past relationships unfolded the way they did and exactly what needs to shift moving forward.
It's a Safe Space: You don't have to perform or pretend. You can be honest about your fears, patterns, and desires without judgment.
Book Your Aligned Love Assessment
If you’re ready to stop dating by default and start choosing by design, book your Assessment. We’ll map your blueprint and show you exactly what shifts your outcomes.
If you’ve felt yourself nodding as you read this —
this is your invitation to stop doing this alone.
Who Am I?
I'm Joan Nwosu,
and just like you, I've been exactly where you are.
I'm a woman who's walked through heartbreak, healing, and hope, and now walks beside others as they discover their unique blueprint for love. My journey into relationship coaching wasn't planned — it unfolded through lived experience and a revolutionary discovery.
I know what it's like to:
- Be the strong one, the successful one — and still cry wondering why love feels so hard
- Be pursued, admired, even desired — yet never fully seen
- Try to "fix" yourself to be more palatable, more patient, more perfect — only to attract partners who couldn't meet you at your depth
- Get ghosted after showing up as your best self and spiral into questioning your worth
- Wonder if something was wrong with you because dating advice that worked for everyone else never seemed to land
Raised in the quiet aftermath of my parents' divorce, I learned early that love isn't always easy — but it's always worth understanding. Years later, I stood in similar shoes. I loved, I married, I hoped… and I also let go.
Divorce was my turning point. It unraveled me, then rebuilt me.
But something was still missing. Despite all my healing work, I kept attracting the same patterns.
Then I discovered Human Design and everything clicked.
My Love Gates revealed why I'd been drawn to certain types, why chemistry felt like "the one," and how to finally break the cycle.
Through my work with hundreds of successful women, I realized:
- What's missing isn't another dating strategy. It's energetic alignment.
- You don't need to be more available. You need to be more authentic.
- And you don't need to "fix" yourself. You need to remember who you truly are.
The Assessment is where we translate your design into real dating decisions—so alignment stops being a concept and becomes your lived standard.
It starts with The Aligned Love Assessment.
Joan
