You’re Not Broken - You’re Simply Out Of Alignment with the LOVE you truly deserve.
The ONLY dating program that decodes your unique HUMAN DESIGN LOVE GATES —
The energetic keys that shape how you
attract, connect, and commit
You’ve done the work. You’ve healed, journaled, visualized, saged the hell out of your past: SO...
Why does love still feel like a mystery?
Why do you keep attracting partners who don’t meet you at your depth?
Why does “the spark” always lead to the spiral?
Why does a powerful woman like you still question if aligned love is meant for her?
Let me say this clearly:
You don’t need fixing or another dating tip.
You need a framework!!!
You already know this isn't a typical dating program,
because you're not a typical woman.
Let me guess:
You've already done the therapy.
You've journaled, manifested, detoxed, vision boarded.
You've tried the apps, the experts, the events.
So you don't need another 5-step dating checklist or script about "making him chase you."
You need a framework that understands who you are now:
A woman who's self-aware. Successful. Spiritually awake.
And absolutely done with performative dating advice.
What You ACTUALLY Need Is ENERGETIC Clarity...
This isn't about:
Learning dating scripts or "rules"
Fixing your mindset or raising your vibration
Becoming more feminine or more likable
Following a one-size-fits-all formula
This IS about:
Your unique Human Design blueprint for love
Dating as your authentic self, not a performance
Attracting from wholeness, not from wounding
Creating lasting alignment, not temporary chemistry
INTRODUCING
BECOME THE ALIGNED ONE™
A Human Design-Powered System for Soul-Aligned Love
Most dating advice tells you what to DO. I teach you who to BE.
Through my signature Become The Aligned One™ methodology, you'll learn to decode your energetic blueprint, embody your wholeness, and date with discernment—so conscious love becomes inevitable, not exhausting.
THE 3-STEP SYSTEM
STEP 1: DECODE YOUR DESIGN™
Understand Your Energetic Blueprint for Love
Your Human Design reveals WHY you've been attracting certain patterns—and HOW you're designed to magnetize aligned love. This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about understanding yourself.
You'll Discover:
Your Dating Archetype: Your Human Design profile in relationships—how you show up, what you're here to learn, and the patterns you've been running
Your 10 Love Gates: The energetic expressions of how you give and receive love—your unique compatibility code
Your Authority & Strategy: How you're designed to make decisions in dating and take action from alignment, not conditioning
STEP 2: EMBODY YOUR MAGNETISM™
Radiate Your Authentic Frequency
Magnetism isn't energy you project—it's the alignment you embody. This is where you stop performing for connection and start radiating from wholeness.
You'll Master:
Authentic Voice: Speak your truth in dating—no more performing
Magnetic Presence: Nervous system regulation and aura awareness
Self-Trust: Trust your Authority even when your mind says otherwise
Aligned Vision: Crystal-clear Conscious Dream Partner clarity
STEP 3: DATE WITH DISCERNMENT™
Navigate Dating with Strategy, Presence & Sacred Progression
This is where love starts coming to you. You'll create your dating approach with energetic precision, refine your filters, and anchor into your new dating frequency.
You'll Apply:
The REAL Attraction Pyramid™: Assess Chemistry, Compatibility, and Conscious Alignment
Strategic Positioning: Where, when, and how to date based on your design
Sacred Progression: Decision-making at each stage—from first date to commitment
The REAL Attraction Pyramid .... The Heart of Everything I Teach
Most women are dating without a map.
That ends here.
This changes the way you see LOVE forever!
The REAL ATTRACTION PYRAMID LAYERS
🔥 Chemistry (The Spark): The physical attraction and initial excitement that draws you together.
🧩 Compatibility (The Glue): Shared values, emotional connection, and long-term compatibility that hold a relationship together. This is where depth begins.
💖 Conscious Alignment (The Goal): Building a conscious relationship that evolves with you and amplifies your highest self.
And at the foundation? Self-Alignment.
Because you attract what you embody—not what you wish for.
BUT HERE'S THE KICKER...
Most dating advice tells you:
Do more (strategies, scripts, step-by-step)
→ So you can Have love
→ And then finally Be happy
But that's backwards.
When you BE your aligned self,
You naturally DO what works for your energy,
And you HAVE the love that matches your truth.
The Game-Changer: Your Human Design Love Blueprint
Your Human Design is your love blueprint.
It tells you:
• How you're wired to attract
• How you're meant to make decisions
• What drains you and what energizes you
• Why certain dynamics always play out—and how to change them
It's not a personality quiz.
It's your energetic fingerprint—a map of how you're designed to experience love, connection, and truth.
Once you start dating in alignment with your Design, you stop feeling confused.
You stop chasing. You stop second-guessing.
And you start being chosen by the right people.
THE 12 DATING ARCHETYPES
Knowing your Human Design type is just the beginning. There are actually 12 distinct Dating Archetypes that emerge when you combine your type with your profile.
From the Wild Wise Woman (3/6) who transforms through experience, to the Heart-Led Oracle (4/6) who leads with discerning love—each archetype has a completely different:
Timeline for falling in love
Way of processing attraction
Path to sustainable partnership
Healing journey in relationships
Your specific archetype reveals why you've been attracted to certain patterns and exactly how to break free from what's been keeping you stuck.
THE 10 LOVE GATES
For decades, The 5 Love Languages shaped how we understood relationships. But while helpful, they stop short. They describe behaviors, not the energetic frequencies of love itself. They tell us what to do, but not who we are by design.
The 10 Love Gates are not surface-level habits—they're deep energetic archetypes that reveal:
Why you keep attracting the same love patterns
Why some relationships feel effortless while others collapse in chaos
How to shift from the shadow of your love gates (pitfalls) into their gift (aligned love frequency)
7 Mundane (Personal) Love Gates: Love WITH someone—seeking personal connection
3 Transcendent Love Gates: Love THROUGH someone—connecting to something greater
When you live your love design, soul-aligned partnership is not only possible—it's inevitable.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You're tired of attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners in different bodies
- You've built success everywhere except in your love life—and you're done shrinking to be chosen
- You're craving deep, soul-level partnership rooted in purpose, clarity, and conscious growth
- You're ready to stop performing, chasing, or settling—and start attracting from wholeness
- You're ready to become the most magnetic version of yourself in life and in love
You've outgrown cycles. It's time to rise into ALIGNMENT.
"I Finally Understood Why Nothing Worked Before"
Sarah came to me exhausted and confused. She was a successful executive who had tried everything - therapy, dating apps, even hired a $15,000 matchmaker who set her up with men who looked perfect on paper.
"They were successful, attractive, said all the right things," she told me. "But something always felt... off. Like I was performing instead of connecting."
The breakthrough came when we discovered her Human Design.
Sarah is a Projector with a 2/4 profile - designed to be invited, not to initiate. She'd been forcing connections, chasing chemistry, and exhausting her energy trying to "make things happen."
Once we aligned her dating approach with her energetic design:
She stopped swiping and started being selectively available
She learned to trust her emotional authority instead of rushing decisions
She began attracting men who pursued her with clarity and consistency
The result?
Within 3 months, she was in an aligned committed relationship with a man who matched her depth, vision and spiritual path.
Not because she followed scripts or played games - but because she finally showed up as her authentic self.
"Joan didn't teach me how to get love. She taught me how to receive it by returning to who I really am. That changed everything." - Sarah M.
What's Inside Become The Aligned One...
PHASE 1: DECODE YOUR DESIGN™ (Months 1-2)
What You'll Discover:
Your Dating Archetype (your HD profile in love)
Your 10 Love Gates (how you give and receive love)
Your Authority & Strategy (decision-making in dating)
Your Energetic Compatibility Code
Why past patterns keep repeating
You'll Get:
Personalized Human Design Love Blueprint Report
Dating Archetype Deep-Dive Session
Love Gates Workbook
PHASE 2: EMBODY YOUR MAGNETISM™ (Months 3-4)
Radiate Your Authentic Frequency
What You'll Master:
Authentic Voice (speak your truth without apology)
Magnetic Presence (nervous system regulation)
Self-Trust (trust your authority over your conditioning)
Energetic Sovereignty (boundaries without walls)
Aligned Vision (Conscious Dream Partner clarity)
You'll Get:
Be Magnetic Workbook
Nervous System Regulation Toolkit
Conscious Dream Partner Vision Template
Community Accountability Pods
PHASE 3: DATE WITH DISCERNMENT™ (Months 5-6)
Love by Design Empowered Dating
What You'll Apply:
REAL Attraction Pyramid™ (Chemistry → Compatibility → Conscious Alignment)
Precision Guidance by Design (where, when, how to date)
Strategic Positioning (aligned platforms and places)
Sacred Progression (decision-making at each stage)
You'll Get:
REAL Attraction Pyramid Assessment Tool
Strategic Dating Plan (personalized)
Dating Profile Optimization
Support for Real-Time Guidance
Live 1:1 & Group Coaching (weekly)
1:1 Deep dive into your Design
Real-time support with your dating situations
Group energy for breakthrough moments
Hot seat coaching on specific challenges
Community of aligned, conscious women
INVESTMENT
$4997
or 3 payments of $1797
This is a fraction of what most women spend on dating apps, matchmakers, and dating coaches that don't work - while you're getting a framework you'll use for life.
Imagine This Is Your New Reality...
Your days: You wake up calm and grounded. No anxious checking of your phone. No wondering if he's going to text. You know your worth isn't determined by anyone else's attention.
On the apps: A high-quality man asks you out. Instead of overanalyzing, you tune into your body. Your emotional authority guides you clearly - this feels aligned. You say yes from wholeness, not neediness.
On dates: You show up as yourself - your full, multidimensional self. No dimming your light or hiding your success. He's drawn to your authenticity and depth. You feel seen, not performed for.
In a few months: You're in a conscious relationship with someone who matches your vision, values, and energy. Love feels like expansion, not contraction. You didn't chase it - you became magnetic to it.
This Isn't Fantasy. This is what ALIGMENT Looks Like.
WHEN YOU BECOME THE ALIGNED ONE...
You are magnetic to the right kind of love
You walk into rooms radiating clarity. Your boundaries are sacred, not rigid. Your presence is soft, grounded, and irresistible—because it's real.
Dating no longer feels like a chore
Your nervous system is calm. Your energy speaks before you do. And men you actually want are showing up, consistently, in alignment, and ready.
You no longer fear being alone
Because the love you've cultivated within yourself is so rich, any external love is a beautiful bonus—not a lifeline.
You're attracting your match
Not just attracting love—but attracting peace. Joy. Alignment. Devotion. Someone who sees, respects, and cherishes you without needing you to dim your light.
My Promise To You...
This is the only dating program that decodes your unique Love Gates — the energetic keys that shape how you attract, connect, and commit.
I'm so confident that Become The Aligned One™ will transform your relationship with love that I'm offering a 60-day money-back guarantee.
If you implement the framework and don't experience a significant shift in your dating energy and outcomes within 60 days, I'll refund your investment completely.
Why can I make this promise?
Because this isn't theory. It's a proven framework that's worked for hundreds of women who were exactly where you are now.
When you align with your energetic truth, attraction becomes natural - not forced.
Hi, I’m Joan
I’ve lived the heartbreak, the shrinking, the marriage that made me question who I even was. And I refused to believe love had to stay broken.
So I spent 15 years investigating, testing, and rebuilding what nobody else dared to question — how we attract and keep aligned love.
The result?
The REAL Attraction Pyramid™ and the Love Gates — the only system that decodes your unique energetic keys to love that lasts.
Today, I've guided women everywhere—from boardrooms to living rooms—to stop performing, start aligning, and choose love that finally feels like home.
No more guesswork. No more settling. Just truth.
As a 3/6 Splenic Projector with Right Angle Cross of Rulership 4, I understand the journey from transformation through trial to becoming the role model. My Aries Sun brings fire and courage. My Scorpio Moon brings emotional depth. And my defined Head, Ajna, and Throat mean I'm literally designed to turn insight into clarity into communication.
"15 years of research, heartbreak, and breakthroughs led me to this revolutionary framework"
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
Question 1: I've tried dating coaching before. How is this different?
Most dating coaching teaches tactics and scripts—what to say, how to act. Become The Aligned One™ goes to the energetic root. We're not adding more strategies. We're decoding WHY you attract what you attract based on your Human Design, then aligning your dating approach with your authentic design. This is transformation, not tactics.
Question 2: What if I don't know my Human Design?
Perfect! That's part of what we do together. When you join, you'll receive your complete Human Design Love Blueprint Report, plus a deep-dive session into your Dating Archetype. Most women cry when they hear their archetype—because it finally makes sense.
Question 3: I'm not actively dating right now. Can this still help?
Absolutely. In fact, the inner work of Phases 1 and 2 (Decode Your Design and Embody Your Magnetism) are perfect preparation. When you're ready to date, you'll be doing so from a completely different energetic foundation.
Question 4: How much time does this require weekly?
Plan for 2-3 hours per week for coursework, coaching calls, and embodiment practices. The transformation happens through consistent integration, not information overload.
Question 4: What if I'm not spiritual or into Human Design?
You don't need to be "spiritual" - just open-minded. Human Design is a synthesis system—part ancient wisdom, part modern science. You don't need to "believe" in it for it to work. Many of my most analytical clients have found it the most practical framework they've ever encountered for understanding their patterns and preferences.
The Question Isn't Whether You Deserve Love
You know you do.
The question is: Are you ready to stop settling for anything less than the soul-aligned partnership you came here for?
The woman who joins Become The Aligned One™ isn't looking for tips and tricks.
She's ready for TRANSFORMATION!
She's ready to embody her wholeness and let love meet her there.
Because You Don't Attract What You Want...
You Attract What You Be..
So the question is:
Are you ready to BE the woman who chooses herself - and lets love catch up?